WTF? Blindsided by a winey loser

YahooID: bigkid142003
This one messaged me about crushing videos. Sounds cool enough, really, something I wanted to do before & probably still will. It seems he just wanted to chat & give me some ideas on future YouTube vids, which ya'll know I have not seemed to have much time to spend on making those anyway. Seemed a normal enough of an IM friendly chat every now and then, and I do have some who I chat with. Apparently, this loser thought he meant more to me than he did. Occasionally, he would toss video ideas at me, mostly non sell able, and I have plans to make some of them, again I never thought any of them would be sell able. I am busy, I am not going to jump at ANY ONE'S request, regardless of how I feel about it, unless I know there is an absolute guarantee of purchase. In this case there was not, only in passing, and not taken seriously.
I should have got the clue he was insecure & selfish from this IM:

bigkid142003 (5/11/2010 10:02:03 AM): good m orning sweetie, i seen your e-mail on the block, i guess i must be the looser, hope things are going well for you, take care
bbw_goddess_anna (5/11/2010 10:39:31 AM): what do you mean you mustbe the loser?
bbw_goddess_anna (5/11/2010 10:39:46 AM):
bigkid142003 (5/11/2010 10:41:35 AM): i know you have been working alot, that's why i don't bother you, i figure when you are ready to talk you will, and working like you do, i know you don't have time to make any videos, i just thought you really didn't like the ideas so i figured i was the one you meant
bbw_goddess_anna (5/11/2010 10:42:06 AM): it was on the blog who was the loser
bbw_goddess_anna (5/11/2010 10:42:07 AM): lol
bbw_goddess_anna (5/11/2010 10:42:21 AM): wasn't you
bbw_goddess_anna (5/11/2010 10:42:31 AM): but I find it interesting that you thought it was
bigkid142003 (5/11/2010 10:42:43 AM): oh, ok, i didn't get a chance to read your blog, sorry

This was after chatting almost a month, so, again, I should have seen how he thought he meant more to me than he actually did. Not once did he make a video request, only random ideas, some of which I liked and still intend to do. One was using a cake as a rug to stand, and some about standing on baby clothes which I told him upfront I would not do, putting hot dog buns in my shoes & walking around, and mostly just stepping & standing on messy things. Then today I log in to my messenger & get this wacko offline:
bigkid142003 (5/21/2010 7:16:38 PM): hi anna, i will not bother you anymore, i didn't think you really liked any of the ideas i tried to help you with, i have checked your group and your clips4sale and none of them have been done, and i read the message from your yahoo group also, and no mention of any of the idea there for your next video, i didn't think you would really like any of the crushing ideas i came up with, and i will not bother you anymore with them, hope things go well for you, and hope your cam shows make you alot of money, take care

How arrogant! How classless! NO one is allowed to treat me this way and have to nerve to dismiss me because I haven't coddled him or whatever. This is exactly why I should stop chatting on IMs with random guys & wasting MY time.
My reply:
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:53:28 PM): wow
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:53:32 PM): what an asshole
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:53:41 PM): go fuck yourself
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:54:03 PM): just becuae I was focusing more on ideas I was already planing doesn't mean shit
bigkid142003 (5/21/2010 9:54:09 PM): i didn't mean anything negitive, i was just saying i wont bother you with it anymore
bigkid142003 (5/21/2010 9:54:43 PM): i just meant i would leave you alone about it
bigkid142003 (5/21/2010 9:54:47 PM): nothing more
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:54:52 PM): yea I read your im
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:55:03 PM): you sound like a whiny ex gf
bigkid142003 (5/21/2010 9:55:06 PM): but since you feel like that, i wont bother you at all
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:55:07 PM): buh bye
bbw_goddess_anna (5/21/2010 9:57:39 PM): I did like the ideas, and will use them when I feel like it, I am not a girl who jumps at someone else's command & if you hadn't figured that ou tby now, you are dumber than I thought have fun on my shit list.
So what I thought was a friendly IM chat, was just a guy wanting what he wanted NOW. LOL Have fun in loserville. Last time I consider one of you guys anything more than what you are: LOSERS!!!